To all the guys who read this, please read fully and try to understand………It touched me... and helped to understand something which was must i guess.. so sharing with you all...
To all the girls who read this, please read fully and forward to the boys you know…....
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well....
She is a girl, who is as much educated as you are...
Who is earning almost as much as u do...
One who has dreams and aspirations just as
u have because she is as human as u are...
One who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements....
One who has lived with n loved her parents & siblings, almost as much as u do for 20-25 years of her life....
One who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt ur home, ur family, ur ways n even ur family name....
One who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day 1 while u sleep....
One who is expected to make the tea first thing in d morning n cook d food at d end of the day even if she is as tired as u are or maybe more....
One who has dreams and aspirations just as
u have because she is as human as u are...
One who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements....
One who has lived with n loved her parents & siblings, almost as much as u do for 20-25 years of her life....
One who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt ur home, ur family, ur ways n even ur family name....
One who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day 1 while u sleep....
One who is expected to make the tea first thing in d morning n cook d food at d end of the day even if she is as tired as u are or maybe more....
And yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like u are as
to what u want from her n is clumsy and
sloppy at times n knows that u won't like it if she is too
demanding, or if she learns faster than you...
One who has her own circle of friends n that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid ur irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition n your inherent insecurities....
Yes, she can drink n dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply bcoz u won't like it, even though you say otherwise...
One who can b late from work once in a while when deadlines just like urs r to be met...
One who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success if u just help n trust her...
One who just wants one thing from you as you are the only one she knows in your entire house- your unstinted support n your understanding, or love, if you may call it....
But not many guys understand this...... Please appreciate "HER"...
One who has her own circle of friends n that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid ur irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition n your inherent insecurities....
Yes, she can drink n dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply bcoz u won't like it, even though you say otherwise...
One who can b late from work once in a while when deadlines just like urs r to be met...
One who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success if u just help n trust her...
One who just wants one thing from you as you are the only one she knows in your entire house- your unstinted support n your understanding, or love, if you may call it....
But not many guys understand this...... Please appreciate "HER"...
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